Gather
together some small, lightweight objects for the group that
might remind them of events from their past. If youre
playing with seniors, it could be an old embossed medicine
bottle, WW II memorabilia, an old magazine, etc. If your
group grew up in the 50's it might include a Captain Midnight
mug, some 45 rpm records, or an old Dick and Jane book.
For a mixed age group, bring an assortment of items. The
items don't have to be exotic or expensive.
Next,
find a basket, box or tin that the objects fit in.
Begin
the activity by pulling the objects out one by one. Hold
them up and pass them around. Ask if anyone has any memories
or a story about the item. If people are hesitant or shy,
have a story of your own to break the ice ("I used
to save my allowance to buy 45's like this and I would play
them over and over and over till they were worn out.").
When someone tells a memory, ("My mother used to give
me a dose of castor oil from a medicine bottle that looked
like this. It tasted terrible!"), ask questions to
expand it
("
Why do you think she did that?" "How often did
she do that?" "How old were you" "What
else do you remember from then?" "Tell me about
your mother" etc.) Maybe other people have questions
to ask. Give the teller their moment in the "spotlight"
before thanking them and asking for someone else to share.
Seeing
and holding tangible objects bring back memories. One persons
memory will evoke other peoples memories. Once the
group gets started, the stories will flow.
Sitting
in a circle, tell a group story one sentence at a time.
The first person begins the story "Once upon a time
"
and finishes the sentence. The next person picks up where
that sentence left off and adds their own sentence. The
third person adds their sentence, and so on around the circle.
You may be amazed where the story goes. It could go around
the circle one or more times. The story takes on a life
of it's own.
For
more of a challenge, tell a group story one word
at a time. The first person says "Once." The second
says "upon." The third says "a." The
fourth person adds, "time." And so on around the
circle, each person adding just one word. Keep it moving
fast. This requires good listening skills and fast thinking.
It's easy to get just plain garbled before too long. Logic
may not be too obvious, either. But, it's fun.
These
can be done with just 2 3 people, too, instead of
a large group.